Smells like teen spirit
Twenty-three-year-old Barbara enjoys ribbing me about my age. Case in point: Last month when I posted about my interim experiences, she took one look at the photo and burst out laughing.
"Nice flannel," she guffawed, gasping for breath. "Sure smells like teen spirit!"
Harrumph. I'd like to see the outfits she was sporting in 1992.
When she was eight.
To be fair, though, her pop culture reference was spot-on. I was borderline obsessed with Nirvana's "Nevermind"
album at the time that photo was taken.
Our exchange made me feel old. Six months ago, I entered a new demographic: 35-49. I'd been comfortable in 18-34 for a good 16 years, so this was a tough transition for me. No longer as attractive to advertisers as I once was, I rebelled by watching "Laguna Beach"
and buying accessories for my iPod
.
So now that I'm 35, I'd like to think that spending time with Barbara keeps me young. She knows what all the kids are listening to these days, and she introduces me to stuff like Facebook
and the "Grey's Anatomy" podcast
. And I'd like to think that Barbara's time with older, wiser me is beneficial for her, too. After all, I did assist her with the real-world task of figuring out if she could afford her new apartment.
What about you? As you're embarking on a college search or figuring out how you're going to repay your student loans, do you learn from those who have gone before you?
A few weeks ago, Barbara and I were in World Market
to spend her birthday gift card, a present from me. We got a little silly, singing Disney musical tunes in the framed art section. I had to remind myself—and Barbara—that I was 35.
She waved me off. "Sometimes I just like to pretend you're in your twenties, like me," she said.
Sigh. Me, too.



Comments
I'm 53 years old, and my favorite recording artist now is Imogen Heap, who is all of 27 years old and has the world by the tail. My iPod is named Pinky Pod. And I occasionally skateboard. I think you get to go through your twenties again in your fifties -- only, once you graduate, get a good job and pay off your student loan, you have a lot more money and a lot more fun!
Posted by: Harriet | February 15, 2007 02:31 PM
I, myself, am about to enter the 35-49 demographic. I probably watch more MTV now then I did in my younger days...except for the first month after MTV debuted in my favorite decade.
It struck me funny once, when my ex-boyfriend's daughter told me how cool she thought it was, that I liked the same shows and music that she likes. (She's 15.) I had to remind her that I'm in my 30's, and that's NOT old!!! I told her to mind herself, and if she kept that up, I'd nominate her to star in MTV's "Super Sweet Sixteen."
Posted by: Cynthia | February 15, 2007 03:15 PM