Last week, I did something pretty rare for a single 23-year-old: I talked with a mortgage consultant. And I found out that with some perks for first-time homebuyers
in South Dakota, I'm actually in a pretty good position to buy a house.
And I'm scared.
Since I didn't take on debt to attend college, this will be my first experience borrowing a large sum of money. Sure, I've dealt with credit card debt, but that's a couple thousand dollars, not tens of thousands of dollars.
And this scares me.
I keep looking at the positives of buying a house. Like student loans, a mortgage is one of those "good debts"
that in the long run will help you financially. Another positive: not having to listen to my neighbors' bad television choices through paper-thin walls … but I digress.
However, I still get caught up when I start thinking about that dollar amount coupled with the long-term commitment. And I keep wondering if I would have been this pensive about student loan debt. In May I'll have a full year of the "real world" under my belt. That time as an adult has definitely opened my eyes financially. But if I think back to myself as a wide-eyed 18-year-old, I doubt I'd have blinked before signing a promissory note
.
Now that's scary.
What was going though your mind as you took on debt for college? Did you even give it a second thought when you signed that P-note, or were you just excited to be off to college no matter what the cost?

I don't care!!!!
In hindsight, I wish I had thought a WHOLE lot more about the student loan debt I've incurred. I know many other people who have more debt than me, but that doesn't comfort...
I racked up quite a bill to go to college and will be paying it back for many, many years.
I don't necessarily regret my education, but I really wish I'd understood what I was doing when I signed that promissory note.
Akritas – Thanks for sharing.
I actually met with my realtor last night and signed some paperwork with him. He was telling me about the paperwork you have to sign to finalize a home purchase – in some states it’s a couple inches thick. And I’ll be reading every word! :)
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