On Monday, Staci posted about an article on "College Selection Hysteria."
I've heard a lot about this since I started working in the student loan industry, and it's fascinated me. When I chose my college—some 18 years ago—not only was there no hysteria, there wasn't even mild anxiety. I wasn't agonizing over "brand name" schools, nor was I fussing about which one had the best journalism program
. My criteria were quite simple: I wanted a college that was affordable, familiar and a comfortable fit for me. Iowa State University
was kind of a no-brainer for me based on those standards:
- State school. Check affordable.
- Three of my older siblings had attended ISU, and I had been visiting them there since I was 10 years old. Check familiar.
- Three close friends from high school were also heading to ISU. Check comfortable.
I admit, these aren't the best standards
to use when choosing a college, but they're not the worst either. I didn't doubt the quality of education I'd get, and I knew I wasn't going to feel homesick or hopelessly out of place. It was important to me (and my pocketbook) to finish college in four years—so I wasn't in the mood to try anything too risky.
Looking back, I don't regret my decision, and I'm certainly glad I didn't get wrapped up in College Selection Hysteria. But I think there is a happy medium to be found between following your siblings and friends to the nearest state school and becoming an anxiety-ridden senior with an "Ivy League
or bust" mentality.
I would certainly encourage my own kids to explore beyond their comfort zone when it comes to choosing a college—and to base their decision on facts, rather than assumptions. Personally, I eliminated any small, private schools from radar because I thought they were too expensive. It was a bad assumption
. What I didn't know is that some private schools can give you enough financial aid to make themselves competitive with public schools. It kept me from even considering the benefits I might have found in a small school–a closer relationship with professors, a greater opportunity to get involved in activities, etc.
And I do believe that no matter where you go to school, your college experience will be what you make of it. You can have a great experience and get a fabulous education at a "no-name" school if you choose to work hard, get involved, make friends, and get to know your professors and other mentors.
What do you think? Tell us about your college choice—past, present or future.

One thing that I found very useful for choosing a college was online student review boards. TheUniversityReview.com is the one that I used. It provides a good, student-based perspective. While you can't use this solely as a basis for choosing a college, it is a great source of additional information.
Real nice! Very useful. I will bookmark!
June 28, 2007 10:24 PM
Thanks for your column...it's wonderful! We are a non profit who helps parents with this and we are finally making a dent in the confusion!
December 17, 2007 05:55 PM
I was all set to go to Syracuse University; accepted, financial aid, the works. I really wanted to go there, and had told almost all the other schools who'd accepted me "No thanks."
I got home from a weekend away to find that my parents had called Syracuse to check on something and were told the school had *changed*its*mind* and couldn't give me the promised financial aid after all.
I was crushed, but very glad I hadn't turned down the state university that was about five miles down the road from my home. Not quite the separation experience I'd hoped for, but it worked out OK anyway.
So I picked my school essentially by default. I sometimes wonder who/where I'd be now if Syracuse had kept their promise all those years ago...