Last month, I attended a City Arts lecture featuring Sheryl Sandberg, the ubiquitous COO of Facebook and author of Lean In: Woman, Work and the Will to Lead (full disclosure: I have not yet read the book*).

The release of the book and Ms. Sandberg’s subsequent book tour has sparked a flurry of public discourse on whether women really can “have it all” (and what that actually means). But rather than be yet another talking head in that debate, I would like to share the theme from her book lecture that resonated with me the most, and something I wish I knew a long time ago.

“Don’t leave before you leave.”

Ms. Sandberg told the story of a young woman at Facebook who peppered her with questions about how she balanced her work and family. As it turned out, this employee was not only not pregnant, but was not married and did not even have a boyfriend!

Like the woman in Ms. Sandberg’s story, I started thinking about having a child (and the implications of that on my career) way too early. In 2011, when I was debating a move to the next level in product management in a group that was much more fast-paced than my current team, I hesitated. My husband and I had started thinking about having a child, and I found myself wondering, “What if I get the job? What if I got pregnant right after? What if I can’t handle raising a child while in this new job?!”

I ultimately accepted the position after a wise person (also a working mother) asked me simply, “Would you be wondering this if you were a man?” She was absolutely right. Why was I setting limitations on my career based on something that wasn’t even close to happening yet? Even if I did get pregnant on the first day in my new role, I still had a full nine months before I went on leave!

As fate would have it, I did get pregnant later that year, and had my son last June. But I am so glad I decided to step outside my comfort zone to take a position that has been equally demanding and rewarding. Was it hard returning back to work after a four-and-a-half month maternity leave? Absolutely. But that would’ve been true in any job, new or not. Has working full-time while raising a child been challenging? Of course! But first-time parenting is a crazy, wonderful, ridiculously fulfilling experience, and is a challenge no matter who you are and what you do.

While it’s obviously too late to tell my younger professional self to stop planning for things that haven’t happened yet, it’s still advice that I take to heart as my husband and I consider having another child. That’s still a ways away, but even if it wasn’t, I’ve already made a commitment to myself not to leave before I leave this time around.

* For those of you (men and women) who are interested in what Ms. Sandberg has to say but aren’t able to read her book, this TED Talk is a great “cliff notes” version: http://ed.ted.com/lessons/sheryl-sandberg-why-we-have-too-few-women-leaders

Summer vacation is something that we all look forward to. Some of us plan our summers down to the last detail, and some fall into it as a welcome relief from plans. There are several summers from my college years that I wish I could do over with the knowledge that I have now, including the one where I turned down an internship opportunity at the same firm as the previous summer, thinking that I could get more and better experience by spreading out my internship experiences. If hindsight is 20/20, let our bloggers take you on a keen-sighted tour of what they would have done differently.

What would you have done differently with your summer breaks?

VeronicaVeronica
This is going to sound totally unbelievable, but I wish I had applied for summer internships so as to better prepare me for the “real” world. Since I only worked in retail and on campus prior to graduating, my first office experience was my first job out of college. I think it would’ve been a lot easier to transition (and less steep of a learning curve) if I’d had some experience prior to leaving school.

CarolineCaroline
My summer vacations during college were mostly focused on making as much money as possible to get through the next semester. I worked in a meat processing plant one summer, was a nanny the next summer, and during the summer of my unpaid internship, I worked two jobs. As I look back on it, I might have been better of focusing on gaining experience related to my major, rather than just making money. As a journalism major, if I had spent my summers working for a newspaper or radio station, I might have gained some valuable experience and contacts that could have made my transition to the working world go a lot more smoothly.

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I worked full time over three of the four summers I had during college. My favorite was the summer before my senior year. While most of my friends were vying for internships, I took on a study abroad program in Italy. I had always wanted to study abroad, but couldn't afford to take a year away. That trip changed me - I learned so much and made great memories. It gave me the courage to take a job in Korea after graduation. I only wish I could have experienced that the summer before I started college and every summer I had after that. I hope you get the opportunity to go abroad to study, travel or work (or even better - all of the above!).

TrangTrang
If I could go back to those long gone summer days, I would spend time living abroad for the summer months. I would love to immerse myself into another culture and environment for the experience.

If college graduation is nearing for you, you’re probably busy studying for finals, packing and sending out resumes. That’s a full plate for anyone, but you should also take a few minutes to gather a few things before leaving school.

Student loan information: as you’re packing up, take a look through any student loan paperwork you’ve saved. Make sure you know what loans you borrowed during school, what your total repayment amount will be and when repayment begins for each loan. If you have questions about any of these things, contact your financial aid office.

Financial aid office contact information: take note of your financial aid office’s address, phone number, and email if they offer it. It’s probably available on your school’s website, just be sure you know where to find it. You may want to contact your financial aid office down the road if you have questions about your student loans.

Professors/employers/mentors: did you have a professor, employer or mentor during college? If so, be sure you have their contact information before you leave school. You may want to get in touch with them in the future for advice, a job reference, or just to keep in touch.

Record your addresses: you might be surprised how quickly you forget the address of the place you lived for two years. But you may need that information when you rent your next place—you often need to give a few years’ worth of past addresses when you rent a new apartment.

Copy of your transcripts: you may need these for future employment. If you don’t get an actual copy, at least take note of the office that provides them, so you don’t have to hunt it down when it’s time to send them.

For those of you who have recently graduated, is there any other helpful information you wish you’d taken with you when you left college?

Excel in and out of the classroom by using your smartphone to its fullest potential. You already take notes via Evernote, but now you can catch the TED talk and impress your professor. Keep in touch with your friends and family through Skype and FB Messenger? Invite them to watch a concert IRL next week. When everyone opens up Yelp to figure out the best place to grab lunch, you’ll be saving money with Scoutmob. Be ahead of the pack with these 7 apps.

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LIVE MUSIC SANS HEADPHONES - Bandsintown
This app synchs with the music in your library, as well as your Facebook likes and Pandora/Spotify/Last.fm playlists, to create a customized list of concerts in your area so you never miss another live show. No reason to dance in your room alone, now you can make it to the dance floor with your friends. Free

LOCAL GOODNESS FOR LESS - Scoutmob
Servicing 13 major cities, Scoutmob is a treasure map for local deals, events and restaurants in your neighborhood. They source locally-owned shops and give you the deal instantly. Take a picture with their in app Stache Cam while you enjoy 50% off brunch. Free

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STAYING ALIVE – Zombies, Run!
Feel like saving the world from an apocalypse while getting in your cardio? Zombies, Run! is an ultra-immersive running game and audio adventure, co-created with award-winning novelist Naomi Alderman. The story is delivered straight to your headphones and makes running a little more entertaining. $3.99 or $1.99

MASTER CLASS – TED
Stay up to date with over 1,400 TEDTalks by leaders and innovators in every industry at your fingertips. You can search for the Sheryl Sandberg discussion that fueled her best-selling book, or let the app suggest talks that will inspire you. Get distracted by something that isn’t focused on crushing candy. Free

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DON’T HATE, GET EIGHT - Sleep Cycle Alarm
Tired of being tired? The sleep cycle alarm uses the accelerometer in your phone to determine when to wake you within a 30 minute window. During the night, you’ll go in and out of REM sleep which your regular alarm clock doesn’t care about. Sleep Cycle will make the most out of your eight hours so you’ll be bright eyed and bushy tailed. $0.99

NEXT LEVEL - Urban Daddy
In 16 cities and counting, Urban Daddy will act as your digital concierge to find the perfect place according to who you’re with and what you want. Answer a few questions and Urban Daddy will suggest the next move for you and your very cool entourage. Free

READ YOUR FEED - Feedly
Stay up to date without staying up all night. Feedly is an RSS reader with a beautiful user interface and is the best replacement for Google Reader (which is sadly going offline 7/1/13). Sync with Facebook and transform your web sites and blogs into a feast for your eyes. Free

As May approaches, senior across the country are getting ready to graduate from college and move into the next stage of their lives. As exciting as this sounds the realization of “being a grown up” starts to creep in. For those of you who borrowed money, you will also start getting information about what student loans you have outstanding and when your first payments are due. This can be very overwhelming and adds to the anxiety you may already be feeling. Here are some quick tips to help you make an easier transition into loan repayment.

  • Be responsive. Open all of your mail and read it! As crazy as it sounds, this is a big one. Much of this correspondence will give you pertinent information about where your loans are, when the first payment is due and any additional steps you need to take. Not knowing you had a payment due, because you did not open your mail, is not an excuse.
  • Ask for help. Take all the information you receive and make an appointment with your financial aid officer. They can compare your documentation to what they have on record to make sure there are no mistakes…or more importantly to make sure you are not missing anything. It is common for loans to be sold to other agencies and fall through the cracks. It is your responsibility to stay on top of where your loans are. Also, if you are going back to school, currently unemployed, transitioning to a new city for work, etc. they can give you information on how to best manage your loans.
  • Reach out. Get in touch with your lender to make sure your contact information is correct. Many times students use their local address and school email on their loan applications. After they graduate and move, the mail is not forwarded or the email address is cancelled. Again, it is your responsibility and in your best interest to stay in contact. As issues occur, your lender can’t provide assistance if they can’t get in touch with you. Not to mention, they can’t help if you do not ask for it. There are options available for both federal and private loans to help you through the tough spots. The earlier a lender knows about your situation, the easier they may be able to help.
  • Look for opportunities to save. Take some time and research opportunities to get a portion of your federal loan forgiven in-trade for things like teaching science in underserved communities. There are several of these programs, and it never hurts to see if you qualify and are interested in participating in the program. You can also contact your financial aid counselor for additional guidance.
  • Plan ahead. Most student loan programs come with a grace period after graduating that can range from 3-9 months depending on the loan. During this period you are not required to make payments on your loans. Use this time wisely to make your loan repayment easier. As stated before, make contact with your lender, make sure you know where all of your loans are located, make sure your contact information is current and accurate, etc. It is better to handle any issues and get everything straight during the grace period than it can be once you enter into repayment. Create a budget that includes your student loan payment and start managing your money towards this budget now. This will get you in the habit of making the payment earlier so when the actual first date comes around you are better prepared for it.

You are responsible for repaying your student loans based on the agreement between you and whomever you borrowed the money from. The more proactive you are about contacting your lender, the easier this stage of your life will be.

Tips for a Smooth Transition:

Making the jump from class to cube? Make sure that you start your career on the right foot. After all, you never get a second chance to make a first impression, and there are so many things that can derail your interview for the perfect job before it even starts. Here are some tips to make sure that you don’t commit a faux pas prior to getting your foot in the door.

Online Profile
I know you’ve heard of the importance of keeping your information private online. Now is the time to look through your Google high SEO posts, pictures, blogs and comments with a fine tooth comb. The importance of an online presence is increasing, so more and more recruiters are looking to the internet as a source of information about you. According to do Zuckerburg’s Law , the amount of online data about you doubles each year. Become the curator of your online life – turn up the privacy settings, cut the fat, and make sure your LinkedIn picture isn’t a selfie.

Visit a Tailor
Time to retire the high school softball hoodie. Jeans will most likely be relegated to the weekends. If your closet only consists of the one suit you picked up the day before your first interview, you need to follow my advice. Walk over to your nearest trusted tailor and have your suit and any dress pants you own, tailored to really fit you. A $30 dollar adjustment will make you look like a million bucks. Trust me.

Become the Career Center Mayor
One of your best resources is your school’s career center. The counselors are armed with tons of knowledge about life in and out of college. Take special advantage of the amenities you’ll have to pay for in real life: resume review, interview skills and practice, info on first year alum at companies that interest you, etc. CCs also may offer discounts for professional clothing outlets and trade associations.

Dotting Your I’s
You’re prepped to make the best possible first impression, so ensure you’re leaving a lasting one. Pick up solid resume paper, preferably a high percentage of cotton and 32lb weight. Find good Thank You cards, classic white or ivory will convey the correct message. Remove the ringback song on your phone (no more LMAO while they wait) and ensure your voicemail message is clear and professional. Fine, keep your OG coolguy1992@yahoo.com email address, but create a new one with your first and last name to use for professional purposes.

Take a deep breath and get ready for your next big step!

Travel is a great way to expand your cultural horizons, meet new friends and reconnect with old ones, but it can get expensive. How do our bloggers do it without breaking the bank?

For those of you who are traveling overseas with a group of friends, I would suggest renting apartments instead of hotel rooms. I travel with 3 other friends and we have found the apartments to have more space, free Wi-Fi and cheaper than getting 2 hotel rooms. Although this seems to be changing in some places, the apartments usually don’t include the high tax rate that hotels carry.

The locations are right in the heart of where you want to be, and you can save money by cooking your own meals and doing laundry (if washer and dryer are included). Most places include free Wi-Fi, or at the very least a computer available to use which is a huge plus--and savings, too. Also, you get great local information from the owners.

We have used most of the popular sites like www.homeaway.com; www.airbnb.com and www.vrbo.com with good success when looking for place for 4 or more nights. For less than 4 nights, www.craigslist.com has been a great resource using search for vacation rentals by owner. Many of these will have a broker, but we have found them helpfully for finding and negotiating apartments for less than 3 nights. The rules we follow are: do not pay for the entire stay upfront; an acceptable deposit rate of no more than 1 night (unless through one of the sites); and there must be recent pictures of every room.

If you are planning on hopping around a lot, this may not be a great choice. However, if you are staying in one city for a week, I highly suggest considering the option.

VeronicaVeronica
Look at condo options at your vacation destination as opposed to a traditional hotel room. Condos come with fully-equipped kitchens, which means you can cook and don’t have to dine out every meal. A two-bedroom or three-bedroom condo split amongst a group of friends often ends up being much less expensive than everyone getting their own hotel room, and also provides a place to hang out after a night out!

Juanita Soranno
Check out Couchsurfing and ASW. These are great resources to meet locals where you'll be traveling! Don't over plan your trip. If your itinerary reads more like a meeting agenda, you'll miss the out on great spontaneous opportunities that may present themselves. I traveled through Thailand and was able to get my scuba diving certification and attend the Half Moon Festival, all because I didn't schedule myself to the minute. Increase your potential for adventure!

TrangTrang

While some of you out there may not appreciate this tip, bunking with family is always a great way to save while traveling. I’m lucky to have family that is spread out on several continents, including both coasts (West and East), Europe and SE Asia. If I’m looking to save a few $$$ on lodging, I could simply choose one of those destinations to travel to and I have. So go out there and look up your long lost 3rd cousin and save some dollars while traveling!

How do you save money while traveling?

Graduating college seniors, you probably have a lot on your mind as this final semester of your college career winds down.

No doubt you’ve got finals looming and you’re probably deep in job-hunting mode, not to mention the fact that you probably have to pack up and move in the next few weeks. And there’s one more pesky item that should be on your to-do list if you have a federal student loan: complete your exit counseling session.

If you have a federal student loan, completing your exit counseling session is a requirement. If you have private student loans, it depends on the lender and/or your school as to whether it’s required. I had federal student loans, and when I was a graduating senior, students had to attend these exit sessions in person. This was B.I., of course (Before Internet).

Today, you can sit in the comfort of your dorm or apartment and whiz through your exit counseling session online while in your jammies. And in an effort to cross one more thing off your list, you may be tempted to get it done quickly, without paying much attention to the content.

But please don’t.

Trust me, there will come a day, maybe only a few months down the road when you’ll wish you knew a little more about your student loan. Repaying your student loan is a big responsibility—this time it’s critical to pay attention to the details.

But the exit session is not just about what you have to do. You also have rights as a borrower, and it’s important that you understand them. What if you need to postpone your payments and want a deferment or forbearance on your federal student loan at some point? Is loan consolidation right for you? (Remember that you may not be able to get the same repayment plans, deferment options, loan forgiveness, etc. with private student loans as you do with federal student loans.)

These are just some of the questions that exit counseling can answer for you. So take the time to walk through it carefully and pay close attention. It’s information that you’ll want to know.

The average cost of college tuition and fees in 2012 ranged from $8,655 a year for in-state students attending a public, four-year college, to $29,056 a year for students attending a private, nonprofit four-year institution. Yet, a September 2012 survey showed that a school’s cost was the student’s fifth most important consideration when deciding where to attend college. Students also indicated a need for support from a variety of funding sources; more than half of students surveyed borrow from the federal government or a private lender to cover their costs.

These statistics show that a school’s price tag is actually a very important factor when choosing a college. When comparing college costs, one of a student’s first steps should be filling out the FAFSA (Free Application for Federal Financial Aid). Then, in late March and early April, students and their families begin receiving back financial aid award letters from the colleges they’ve applied to. These letters provide the details related to the estimated cost to attend the school, the expected family contribution, and your financial aid award package. This package includes grants, scholarships, work-study, need-based and non-need-based loans.

If you’ve been through this process before, you’ll notice your financial aid letter may look different this year. In 2013, colleges have the option of using the U.S. Department of Education’s new Financial Aid Shopping sheet. Many of the elements contained in this new form are the same as a school’s own financial aid award letter, though the standardized format should make it easier for students and their families to compare their options and review elements such as grant and scholarship amounts, net costs, graduation rates, loan default rates, median borrowing and estimated monthly loan payments after graduation. And, as of March 2013, the Department of Education says close to 700 schools are voluntarily using the new form for the 2013-2014 award year.

After you receive either the Financial Aid Shopping Sheet or your financial aid award letter here are some additional steps to help you make informed decisions about how to pay for college:

Determine additional expenses

  • Consider all funding options to cover costs of college after reviewing award letter including grants, scholarships, institutional awards, Federal Work Study, Federal Perkins Loans and/or Federal Direct Stafford Loans.
  • Be realistic about your budgeting needs. You only want to borrow what you need – not too much and not too little. Creating a budget starts with monitoring and documenting your spending relative to your income to determine how these patterns will translate to college life.

Explore your additional financing options

  • Tuition payment plan
    Instead of paying your tuition bill in one lump sum each semester, if offered by your school, you can enroll in this plan to make smaller, manageable installment payments. This plan can be used on its own, or combined with financial aid including student loans.
  • Federal Direct PLUS loan for parents
    This loan is available for parents of dependent undergraduate students. This loan can cover up to 100 percent of remaining eligible education-related expenses. A credit check is required, but the parent’s debt and current income is not considered.
  • Federal Direct PLUS loan for graduate and professional students
    This loan is available to graduate and professional students and can cover up to 100 percent of remaining eligible education-related expenses. A credit check is required, but the student debt and current income is not considered.
  • Private (or alternative) student loans
    These loans are made available to students through banks and other private lenders. These loans can typically cover 100 percent of the remaining costs of eligible education-related expenses. Full credit underwriting is required as well as a debt and current income. Most students will need a qualified cosigner to meet credit eligibility requirements.

Know your deadlines and compare your options

  • Pay special attention to the college application deadlines to make sure that you can take full advantage of these opportunities.

For additional information on financial aid resources, visit https://www.wellsfargocommunity.com or https://www.wellsfargo.com/student/

Planning for college isn’t easy. You have to select the right classes, prepare for all of the big tests, get recommendations, write essays, visit the college campuses, and figure out how you are going to pay for all of it. You may have a lot of questions along the way. We do our best to cover these topics on this blog, but Wells Fargo also has another resource for students: the CollegeSTEPS® program. You may have seen the links to it here on our page before.

The CollegeSTEPS program offers helpful guidance for navigating the financial aid process and periodic e-newsletters which are tailored to your stage of college preparation. Plus, there is an ongoing sweepstakes for those who have enrolled in the program, so students get great information and a chance to win $1,000. Normally, 40 winners are selected at random each year from eligible enrollees.

This Spring, the CollegeSTEPSSM expanded sweepstakes has been added that greatly expands the cash prizes: Wells Fargo is giving $1,000 in cash to 520 randomly-drawn high school students who enroll in the CollegeSTEPS program by June 30. Winners will be selected on a regional basis, so high school students across the country will win.

That’s over half a million dollars to help those who may be planning to go to college, and the winners get to decide themselves (though their parents may have some say in it) if it goes toward tuition, books, first months’ rent on an apartment, toward the vehicle of their choice or other expenses they may have.

The sweepstakes is totally free to enter, so check it out now! The extra prizes will only be available to high school students who enroll in the CollegeSTEPS program by June 30, 2013, so you don’t have much time! If you are a high school student already enrolled in the CollegeSTEPS program, you do have to re-enroll by the end of June to be entered in the expanded sweeps, but it won’t affect the resources that you are already receiving. For full sweepstakes rules and regional prize breakdown, visit: https://www.wellsfargo.com/expandedcollegesteps.

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